Why does the narcissist come back? - The Hoover manoeuvre explained

Narcissists have a way of reappearing in your life, often when you least expect it. After enduring the pain and chaos of narcissistic abuse, it's natural to ask yourself, "Why do they come back?" The narcissist will 'hoover' you back to regain control of you and to make sure you never forget about them. (Hoover meaning to suck you back, the term being coined from the Hoover vacuum cleaner) Whether it's a sudden phone call, an unexpected visit, or a chance encounter at the grocery store, the n...