18: #18 How to Stop People-Pleasing and Take Control of Your Business

Feeling overstretched, over-obligated, and constantly saying “yes” when you really want to say “no”? That’s people pleasing — and it’s quietly holding your business back. In this episode, I’m digging into one of the biggest mindset shifts you can make as a solo business owner: learning how to stop people pleasing so you can protect your time, energy, and boundaries. I’m sharing the sneaky signs of people pleasing, how it clashes with your business goals (especially if you want to work fewer days), and practical ways to shift your responses — without turning into a robot or a diva. From how to handle those “could you just…” requests, to setting respectful boundaries with clients, to creating systems that serve you and your audience, this is about reclaiming your time without guilt. If you’re longing for more space in your week and want to feel empowered in your business again, this episode is a gentle but firm nudge in the right direction. ✨ Boundaries aren’t mean — they’re magic. And they’re the only way to create a business that truly works for you. Helpful Links: 🌀 Download the free guide: Feeling Stuck 📖 Read my book 💬 Work with me If this episode resonated with you, I’d love to hear about it. Tag me on Instagram @libbylangley and show me where you're listening from — bath, desk, or canoe on a Tuesday. 😄 Here’s to less pressure, more presence, and a gentler way of doing business. Libby x