addressing the soft life controversy - the gender sleep gap

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In this episode, Elle explores the gender sleep gap and its connection to the viral soft life trend. She examines how women experience poorer sleep quality and more insomnia symptoms than men due to both biological factors and social pressures, particularly the unequal burden of unpaid domestic labor. Elle traces the origins of the soft life movement. While the trend originally centered on women recognizing their inherent worth beyond productivity, Elle critiques how it has been aestheticized and co-opted into problematic narratives about dependence and economic insecurity. Ultimately, she argues for reclaiming the soft life's original meaning—that women deserve rest, comfort, and safety without earning it through exhaustion—and encourages listeners to resist the sinister pipelines that distort women-created concepts into tools that strip away their agency.

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