How to Make New Friends in Retirement – Dr. Marisa G. Franco

A lot changes when you retire, including your social connectivity. Dr. Marisa G. Franco, author of Platonic: How the Science of Attachment Can Help You Make--and Keep—Friends, has research-based advice on making new friends as an adult, and creating new connections. _________________________ Delaying retirement? Many of my clients are. But they’re using this time to get a jump on their future. You could wait until you retire and ask What Now? – and then scramble - or drift. Instead, why not start now to proactively explore your options and design your new post-full-time work life? Find how how the Designing Your Life process (developed by Bill Burnett & Dave Evans at Stanford) can help you unlock a new direction. Apply the same principles of design thinking that Nike and other leading companies use to design your future. Learn more about my One-on-One coaching and small group programs. Take the first step toward your new life today - schedule a call. __________________________ Bio Dr. Marisa G. Franco is the New York Times bestselling author of Platonic: How the Science of Attachment Can Help You Make--and Keep—Friends;  and she is a professor, speaker, and psychologist. Her research focuses on the powerful role of our communities in shaping who we are and why we flourish. Marisa uses her expertise to advise clients and companies on how to nurture deeper connections. She believes that connections underlie everything—our health, our motivation, our work, and our sense of who we are. Dr. Franco holds a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology from the University of Maryland and works as a professor there. She writes for Psychology Today and she has been a featured psychologist in The New York Times, NPR, and Good Morning America. ____________________________ For More on Dr. Marisa G. Franco  Platonic: How the Science of Attachment Can Help You Make--and Keep—Friends Website _____________________________ Podcast Episodes You May Like Where to Retire – Silvia Ascarelli Plays Well with Others – Eric Barker Thinking Better to Live Better – Dr. Woo-kyoung Ahn The Emotional Side of Retiring – Kate Schroeder ____________________________ How to Win the Retirement Game (It Might Just Be the Most Important Game of Your Life) What Readers Are Saying:            “Definitely the best book I’ve read on the non-financial aspects of retirement.”            “I wish I had this book when I retired.”            “…the book is amazingly readable, and chock full of insights.”            “This is a great gift for anyone anticipating retirement years or already in the thick of it.” Amazon    Barnes & Noble    Bookshop.org ____________________________ Wise Quotes On Making Friends as an Adult "So making friends is about having a certain type of setting or environment. Rebecca G. Adams, she's a sociologist, describes it as having repeated unplanned interaction and shared vulnerability. So that's school, right? You see someone every day, you have recess, you have gym, you have lunch, right? For some people that's work, for other people not, because sometimes people go to work and they're not quite vulnerable, which is why one study found that the more time we spend together at work, the less close we feel. And I think, in general, as we move forward to adulthood, we just don't inhabit those same types of settings that really foster connection. So if we rely on this concept of making friends that we had when we were kids, we're just going to be like, it should just happen, right?