GOOD NEWS! Everyone Doesn't Have to Like You. GUEST: Tonya Hofmann

Were you brought up with the underlying understanding that, if you were a good person, everyone would like you? Most folks are.So, you do your level best--even once you're an adult--to be pleasant, agreeable, and interesting so that will happen.Sometimes, you go the extra mile in hope, right? And, after you turn yourself into a pretzel, they still withhold approval and interest. So, today's topic will relieve you of the notion that you are supposed to jump all the hoops that each person sets up, and find a way to get them to like you. I know, as an adult, you might be able to say "I don't care whether people like me or not." But, is it the truth that you actually--deep down--FEEL that way? If so, you may be free of these expectations. If it's not true yet--or, you'd like it to be more true, today's episode offers valuable insights that can help! HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:Answers to...What helped you step around fear and create an international organization?Were you afraid of what folks would think, or say?How did your past promote or prevent you from doing this easily? Why do we focus on others so much, and on what they think?How did you get over the "Everyone Has to Like Me" issue?Why do you need to filter some people out of your life? What are your special "rules" for deciding who to keep in your life and how? >>>>> Don't miss all the good stuff at the bottom of this page for you.ARE YOU--OR, HAVE YOU BEEN--IN A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP WITH A PARTNER, EX, PARENT, OR SIBLING?Join my OptimizeCircles.com and get the insights and support you want--safely off social media and it works just like Facebook! Many other free & low-cost resources to help your relationships. All safely off social media, too!___________________________________GUEST: TONYA HOFMANN-CEO & Founder of the Public Speakers Association & Wowdible-Globally Sought-After Speaker-Cover of 5 Magazines-Best Selling Author of 7 International Books-Winner of Multiple National and International Industry and Association Awards -Host of Tonya Hofmann’s Wow TV ShowFREE GIFT FROM TONYA HOFMANN :Want to chat with Tonya Hofmann, CEO of Public Speakers Association? You can by visiting her website.CONTACT INFO FOR TONYA HOFMANN:Website: PublicSpeakersAssociation.comPodcasts:LinkedIn: @TonyaHofmannFacebook: @PublicSpeakersAssociationInstagram: @Tonya_HofmannTwitter:  @DebiSilberYouTube: @TonyaHofmannCONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:Website: TransformingRelationship.comFacebook: RelationshipHelpDoctorTwitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerLinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShalerInstagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShalerPinterest: Pinterest.com/RhobertaShalerWANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS AND HAVE DIRECT ACCESS TO ME IN MY SECRET (Off Facebook) GROUPS?Be first to get my videos. Even, two group Ask Me Anything calls each month.You can. Join my Optimize Circles! CLICK HERE And, get my 21 Steps to Empowered Emotional Savvy via email FREE!Free Passive-Aggressive ChecklistFree Relationship ChecklistSubscribe to Dr. Shaler's newsletter, Tips for RelationshipsFREE ebook: How to Spot a Hijackal®If you have not worked with Dr. Shaler before, you can have your first one-hour session for only $97.#PublicSpeakersAssociation #TonyaHofmann #wantpeopletolikeme #filterpeopleout #relationshipadvice #Hijackals #toxicpeople #RhobertaShaler #healthyrelationship #toxicrelationships #narcissisticabuse#narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #difficultconversations Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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